Wednesday Works: Two Years and One Day

When I think about where I was two years ago (and one day), I think about how different my life was.

I think about how I was on a completely different path, one where I put another’s needs before my own.

I think about where I would be now if I had stayed on that path, if I had suffered in silence longer.

Two years (and one day) ago, before we started our adventure together, I was pretending more than I was being, surviving more than I was thriving, hurting more than I was healing.

Now, I am better.

Now I am thriving.

Now I am healing.

Growing, Changing, Building.

All of it together, with you.

You have let me build myself up, even when it’s been painful.

You have let me grow in each and every way, creatively, compassionately, brilliantly.

You’ve let me try and fail.

You’ve let me transform into who I’ve truly meant to be all along.

And I hope I have done the same for you.

I love you and I hope for more years together.

Love,

Your Bücket

Wednesday Works: Sappy Poem For a Loved One

To you,

The man I’ve known since we were children,

The one who has grown up into such a wonderful man:

With you, the days fly by in laughter and sweet kisses.

The nights glide by with sweet nothings and delicious delights,

With you, the companion of my dreams.

When we’re apart, I crave you.

When we’re together, I yearn for your smile, your touch, your laugh.

I long to be seen by you.

I long to dance with you deep into the midnight hours,

Hold you in the early mornings before the sun comes up.

I crave to be with you, even when we simply be and nothing else.

There are so many words I can try to put down,

But it will simply never be enough.

But I think you know what I’m trying to say.

Writer Life Lessons #19: Learn Everything You Can

Some of you may be looking at this title and thinking “Learning? But I’m a writer and I already know what I want to write about”. I understand where you are coming from, and I know how daunting it sounds to learn new things, but there is a reason for it.

Learn Everything You Can because you never know when it will come in handy for your next draft, or even in your own life. If nothing else, it’s interesting factoids at parties. Entertain yourself and your friends!

When you have a voracious appetite for learning, it makes writing easier. Not only do the ideas flow better, because you know more base information to come up with ideas, but you more easily can identify plot holes and glaringly obvious mistakes that might have made your reader put your book down and never pick it up again.

I’m not saying that you should go to college, or back to college, just because you want to write about astrophysics. I am saying learn what interests you. With the addition of the internet and smart phones, tons and tons of knowledge is at the tip of our fingers. If I wanted to learn Mandarin Chinese tomorrow, all I would have to do is type it into my nearest search bar and find the link that interests me most.

The learning doesn’t always have to be online either. There are books and podcasts and shows on television, groups in your area. If you can think of a way to learn, it is probably out there in your community. Anything and Everything is out there if you know where to look.

I take this lesson very personally, because as of now, I have been in school for most of my life and am just starting to break out into the workforce. I have learned a lot in all the schools that I have been in and all of the classes and units that I have taken. Even now, after I have graduated, I still am learning new things everyday. I want to know as much as possible, so my characters, my scenes, my writing can be as amazing as real life, and so I can help as many people as possible in my life.

Recently, I learned the basic information about computers and laptops, and brought my old laptop back to life with a few parts from my lovely boyfriend, and the assistance of my dad. It’s running great now, and it is what I am using to write this post right now. Sure, I could have just bought a new laptop, when I get a job, but I get the satisfaction of knowing that I fixed it and that I have a new experience and new knowledge to fall back on.

So go out and learn something new, and be proud of that knowledge!

And as always:

Happy Writing!